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主动交往 收获友情

fabushijian:2016/1/5 10:46:54 zuozhe:shangzongfa liulanliang:9450ci

 

主动交往 收获友情

xieqiaobing

 

一、教学目的

1. renshidaotongxuejianlianghaoderenjihudongnengjitamendailaigengduodeanquangan、guishuganheyuyuedetiyan。

2. duoshuxueshengzaijiaowangzhongcunzaihaixiuxinli,tamenwangwangbunengchongfenbiaodazijidesixiangganqing,chengweijiaowangzhongdebeidongzhe,congershitamenshiquxuduoshehuijiaowanghebijiaodejihui,shiqutarenguliyijiziwojinqudedongli。tongguohuodong、taolunhefenxiang,bangzhuxueshengzhangwozairenjizhongzhudongbiaoda、zhudongjiaotanyijishenrujiaowangdefangfa。

二、教学目标

1.renzhimubiao:nengfenxishenbiantongxuerenyuanhaodeyuanyin,gaikuobingzhangworenjijiaowangzhongchangyongdeqidonghuati。

2.nenglimubiao:canyuhuodong、taolun,zaiketangchuangshedeqingjingzhongzhudongyutongxuejiaotan、fenxiang,nengjiangzhudong

jiaowangdefangfahejiqiaoqianyiyunyongdaoshenghuozhong。

3.qingganmubiao:linghuizhudongjiaowangdehaochuyuzhongyaoxing,leyujiaowang,zairenjijiaowangzhongzhudong、reqing、jiji,peiyanglianghaodegexingpinzhi。

三、教学重点

zhangwobingyunyongzhudongjiaowangdefangfayujiqiao。

四、教学难点

zhudongjiaowangdefangfayujiqiaodeyouxiaoyunyong。

五、 教学形式

1.活动法

2.taolunfa

3.yanshifa

六、教学时间

40fenzhong

七、教学班级

gaoyi(1)ban

八、教学内容与步骤

(一)课前准备:

1.keqianbofanggequ《yuezhangdayuegudan》。http://www.iqiyi.com/common/flashplayer/20141016/shareplayer_4_1_8_1_c3_2_1_6_ad222.swf?vid=31eefcafa28247cb9d4bbf9940f3d793&pageurl=yinyue/20120910/30797c57cc8d583d.swf&albumid=224906&tvid=270139&ispurchase=0&cnid=5&share_stime=0&share_etime=220&source=school.psychologist.org.cn

2.jiangjiaoshidekezhuobaishechengketangsuoxudefenxiaozuxingshi。

(二)导入新课:(2分钟)

zaiwomenchengzhangdeguochengzhong,renjikunraohuodahuoxiao,huoqinghuozhong,jihushiruyingsuixingbansuizhewomendeqingchun。zaimouxieshikewomenzhenhuiyouxianggequlisuochangdeyiyangganshou:yuezhangda,yuegudan。youqishiwomengaoyidetongxue,ganggangjinglichuzhongbiye,jiushipengyou,gefendongxi,laidaoyigexindexuexiao,fazhanxinderenjiguanxiquan、jiejiaoxinpengyoubianchengweiwomendangxiadeyigezhongyaoketi。

youqingbuhuicongtianerjiang,xuyaowomenzijidefuchu。qishihenduotongxuebingfeijujuejiaowang,ershiyuanyiyurenjiaoliu,danquebuganbiaoda,budongbiaoda;xiangxiangbierenzhanshizijideyouhaoquebuzhicongherushou;neixindereqingyuyoushanbuweirenzhi,kewangyouyiqueyouhaipabeijujue……huanjuhuashuo,womenshibudongdezenmequzhudongyurenjiaowang。

zheiyijieke,womenjiangtongguohuodong、taolun,fenxiang,yiqilaixuexiruhezaixinhuanjingzhongzhudongjiaowang,jiejiaoxinpengyou,shouhuoxinqingyi。

(三)如何做到主动交往(共28分钟)

1.主动表达,先发制人(9分钟)

【huodongyi:jiebantongxing】

(1)游戏规则:

① qingyixietongxueshanglai,paiduizhanhao。genjulaoshidekoulingyuanditabu。laoshihan“nrentongxing”shi,suoyoutongxue3miaoneizidongzuchengnrenxiaozu。bunengzuchengxiaozudetongxueweihuodongzhongdeluohouzhe,xuyaoshuochuzijizaiyouxizhongdeqinshenganshou(nshiyoulaoshishuodeshuzi)。

② zai1fenzhongshijiannei,meiweitongxueyaozaizheixietongxuezhongzhaochuzhishaoyiweigenzijiyougongtongxingquaihaodetongban。kansheizaizheigehuodongzhongzhaodaodetongbanzuiduo。zuoweishangdetongxuezhuyiguanchatamendebiaoxian。

(2)活动分享:

① nishifouwanchenglelaoshideyaoqiu?youhejingyan?huozheyouhejiaoxun?

② zaihuodongzhong,nizhaodaogenzijiyougongtongxingquaihaodepengyouduoma?ganshouruhe?

③ nimendegongtongxingqushiyousheifaxiande?mianduiduifangdezhudongxingwei,nideganshouruhe?

(3)教师点评:

① henmingxian,zaiyouxizhongnenggouqingsongzirudiyurenjiaotandetongxue,bujinrenwuwanchengdegenghao,benshenyehuodegengduodekuaile。lianghaoderenjihudongnengjiwomendailaigengduodeanquangan、guishuganheyukuaidetiyan。

② youxietongxuebuganzhudongyurenjiaotan,youqishizaidajiadoubijiaomoshengdeshihou,huiganjuehenganga。qishi,chuyuyigebicijianbijiaomoshengdechanghezhong,henduorendouqidaimougerenlaidapochenmo。zheigeqingjingxia,zhudongkaikoudetongxuekeguanshanghuanjielebierendejiaolv,zaijiaowangzhongjiunengxianfazhiren,huodebierengengduodehaogan。sheixianzixinzhudongdikailekou,sheijiuzaijiaowangzhongzhandexianji,tongshiyebiaomingleziji“yuanyijiaowang,keyibeijiejin”delichang。

③ zaigezhongbiaodayouhaodefangfazhong,weixiaoshizuijiandanfangbianyouxiaodeyizhongjiqiao。

(4)交往小贴士:只要主动搭讪就能赢得感激。

(5)深入引导:

chulebuhaoyisizhudongshuohuadapochenmoyiwai,womenwangwanghaiyouyigekunrao,jiushibuzhidaogenduifangshuoshenme。pingshigenhaopengyouzaiyiqishi,womenwuxukaolvzheigewenti,haoxiangbucunzaimeihuashuodeqingkuang,jishiyoushihoubicidoubukaikouyebuhuijuedeganga。keshi,duiyuhaibushuxidetongxue,womenyouruhezhudongkaishijiaotanni?

2.主动交谈,启动话题(8分钟)

【huodonger:moranhuishou】

(1)活动规则:

huixiangnizaizheigebanjilirenshidediyigeren,zixihuiyidangshideqingjing,xiangxiangnimenshiruherenshide?nimendediyicijiaotanyoushiruhekaishide?tanshenmeneirong?dajiaxianzaizuneijiaoliu,ranhouqingyixietongxuelaigenwomenfenxiang。

(2)活动分享:

(3)教师点评:

① tongxuezhongzuijingchangyongdaodeqidonghuatiyou:jiebi、xunwenduifangjibenxinxi(xingming,biyexuexiao,lianxifangdeng)、zaibanjihuodongziranerranyouhuashuo、yaoyueyiqihuodong、qita(budabuxiangshideng)。

② younaxiehuatishihewomengenmoshengrenkaishidiyiciduihua?genjuxinlixuejiadezhengli,yixiahuatishizuifangbianhuodede:tianqi、xuexiyugongke、xinwen、zuixindeyingshiju、zuijindeqiusai、gongtongrenshideren、xingquaihao、yanqiandeshiwu。

③ zhuyi:renrendouyouganxingqudehuati。suizhehuatideshenru,nenglajinbicijiandexinlijuli,ruguoshuangfangdouyougongtongdebeijing,liruyougongtongdeaihaohuozhelaizigongtongdexuexiao,ziranjiuhuitouji,tanhuayehuibiandetaotaobujue。

(4)交往小贴士:启动话题时,自然大方以双方眼前的事物为切入点即可,无需刻意。

5)深入引导:

xianghurenshi,shirenjijiaowangdediyibu。dan“bicirenshi”bingfeiwomendezuizhongmude,zhaodaoyougongtonghuati,nengfenxiangmeihaoshiwu,shenzhinenghuxianglijiehuxianggulidepengyoucaishiwomengengjiaxiwangdedaodeyouqing。zaibicirenshiyihou,womenyougairuhejinyibudezhudongjiaowang,cujinyouqingni?

3.交往深入,拉近距离(9分钟)

【huodongsan:tashanzhishi】

(1)活动规则:

gurenshuo,tashanzhishikeyigongyu;xiandairenyoushuole,buweishibaizhaojiekou,zhiweichenggongzhaoliyou。womentongguobierendechenggongjingyanlaixuexiruhejinyibuyurenjiaowang。womenlaituijianbanligongrendeshanzhangyubierenjiaotan、renyuanhaodetongxue,yitaweianli,shuoshuotaweihenenggenneimeduotongxuetandelai。

(2)活动分享:

① dangshirentanzijidejingyan。

② banjilidetongxuetangaishengdebiaoxian:womenweihexihuangentaliao?

③ womennengcongzheimingtongxueshenshangxuexidaoyurenshenrujiaowangdejiqiaohefangfama?

(3)教师点评:

shenrujiaowang,lajinbicijulifangfayou

主动问候,表达关爱

jianmianshidewenhou,chuleshuoyishenghai,liaoliaotianqizhiwai,haikeyiyougengduodeneirong。birukandaoduifangshencaiyiyi,wen“youshenmehaoshia”huozheshuo“qisebucuo,henhaokan”,kandaoduifangjingshenbujia,wentayoushenmefanxinshishifouxuyaobangmang,zheiyedoushiwenhou。zhudongbazijiduiduifangdeguanxinchuandijiduifang,qishijiushibiaoda“woxihuanni”,errenmenwangwangxihuanneixiexihuanzijideren。

tongyangdedaoli,zhudongyiweizhezairenjijiaowangzhong,xianjiyu,xianfuchu,xianbiaoda。woyuanyizhudongxianduiniweixiao,dazhaohu,woyuanyibangzhuren,erbushidengniyouenyuwoshicaihuibaoni;woyuanyixianbiaodawodeyoushan、zhenchengyureqing,erfeibeidongdidengnilaigenwojiaopengyou……

认真倾听,积极回应

renzhenqingtingdeyaodianzaiyu:manzuduifangdeshuohuayuwang,buyaodaduanta。xiangxiangnizaiktvbeiqiegedeganshoujiumingbaile。

jijihuiying:“e ,ng,zheiyanga”biaomingzijizaiting;“jingranhaiyouzheiyangdeshi!”“taikepale!”“taihaole!”“zhendea?”biaomingniduitadehuatiyouxingqu。“ranhouni?”“jiezheshishenmehuishi?”“houlaishiqingzenmeyangle?”zheizhonghuiyingkeyijianghuatijixu,buzhiyulengchang,haikeyikuozhanshuangfangtanhuadeshendu。  

展示自我,寻找共鸣

changkaixinfei,tanluzijideyixiexiangfahetedian,yirangbierennenggenghaodilejieni。zhanshiziwojinliangyigenduifangxiangtongzhichuzuoweichufadian,rongyichanshenggongming,youliyujinyibujiaoliu。

(4)交往小贴士:“我接触你越多,就越喜欢你”。

(5)深入引导:

genjurenjijiaowangdehuhuiyuanze,qingtongxuemenzijisikaoyixia:tamenweishenmexihuanwo?jibierenyigexihuannideliyou!

4.不断学习,提升自我(2分钟)

yaoyongyoulianghao、wending、jingdeqishijiankaoyanderenjiguanxi,zuizhongyaodeshigerendeneizai,baokuopinxing、xueshi、xiuyang、nenglideng。yinci,womenhaiyaozhudongduoxuexi,zhudongtigaozijidejiazhi,shizijichengweiyigezhidebierenjiaowangderen。jiuruzheiyiduanhuasuojiangdeyiyang:

“15suijuedeyouyongnan,fangqiyouyong,dao18suiyudaoyigenixihuanderenyueniquyouyong,nizhihaoshuo“wobuhuiye”。18suijuedeyingwennan,fangqiyingwen,28suichuxianyigehenbangdanyaohuiyingwendegongzuo,nizhihaoshuo“wobuhuiye”。renshengqianqiyuexianmafan,yuelandexue,houlaijiuyuekenengcuoguorangnidongxinderenheshi,cuoguoxinfengjing——caikangyong”。

(四)课内拓展练习(7分钟)

【huodongsi:shanliangdeni,shanliangdewo】

1.活动规则:

fenxiaozujiaotan,liyongwomensuoxuedefangfahejiqiao,gentongzudetongxuejinxingyicijiaotan。zhaochumeiyiweitongxuezaixiaozuneizuituchudeshanguangdian。biru:xxxxiezizuihaokan;xxxdalanqiuzuihao;xxxxuexizuirenzhen;xxxxiezuozuihao;xxxshanzhangxiaxiangqi;xxxyanjiangzuihao……

2.活动分享:在本次活动中你体验怎么样?情绪如何?

3.教师小结:

zheishiyicizaixiangduishuxidehuanjingzhongjinxingdemonilianxi,tongguolianxiwomenfaxian,zhudonggenrenjiaotan,xiangbierentanluziwo,bingfeiyijianhenjiannanhuozhekongbudeshiqing,zhiyaowomenyuanyiyonggan、zhudongkaikou,zhaodaoheshidehuati,womenhenrongyijiunengzhaodaobutongjiaowangchengdudepengyou。

(五)课堂总结(2分钟)

youyuanxiangju,kaishiyiduangongtongderenshenglvtu,zheishizhidewomenzhenxideyuanfen。xianghurenshiqishihenrongyi,shenchushouqudaoyishengnihao,jiushiyiduanyouqingdekaishi。duonianyihou,womenhuixiangzheixienianzaigaozhongdeshiguang,kendinglibukaiyubanlitongxuejiaowangdediandiandidi。xiwangwomenxianzaijiunengzhudongjiaowang,nengcongzhongshouhuowending、zhangjiu,nanwangdeyouqing,nenggouzaixuexiaolimiankuailedixuexiheshenghuo。

(六)课外拓展练习(1分钟)

qingtongxuemenzaiyizhouzhinei,zhudongyusanweizhiqianbucengjiaotanguodetongxuejinxingyigejiaotan。bingjiangjiaotandeguochengyutihuijixialai。(baokuo:zaishenmeqingkuangxiayuzhijiaotan?jiaotandeguochengnishifouyukuai?weishenme?congzhongniyoushenmejingyanhuozhejiaoxun?)

 

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